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Welcome, Baby Kelly!!!

My dear friend, Sandy, had a baby girl yesterday morning. Kelly arrived at about 5:00 am after a long labor. She seems like she was worth the work! She weighed 8 pounds and was 20 inches long. Another dear friend, Amy, and I were able to visit this afternoon.

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I’m so thrilled for Sandy and Kevin! Congratulations!!!

Happy Birthday, Noah!!!

Noah, my sweet boy, today you turned five. I can hardly believe it’s been five years since you came into our lives. I’ll use the old cliche-I can remember that day like it was yesterday! I’ve spent the day remembering what we were doing five years ago. Early this morning, I was thinking we would have just arrived at the hospital for me to be induced. Around mid-day, I was thinking of the laps I walked in the hospital, trying to get you to come out! And this evening, just before dinner, I was remembering the first time I heard you cry and the first time I saw your face. I’ve loved that face ever since.

In the past year, you’ve changed in numerous ways. You’re growing up so quickly, both physically and emotionally. You keep growing up, rather than out. Your legs are stretching, and your appetite seems to grow along with them! Boppa says you have a hollow leg, and some days I think you do! After eating a whole sandwich, some pepper slices, a big handful of grapes, a bowl of melon, and a full cup of milk, you’re still asking for more food! In the past year, you’ve become much more tolerant to trying new foods. I don’t always make things you like or are familiar with, but you’re always willing to try, though at times you need a bit more “convincing” (read: “bribery”). Your face isn’t changing as quickly as it has in the past few years, but you are looking older.

You are athletic, loving pretty much any sport, especially baseball. You got to play t-ball this summer, and loved every minute of it. 07162008 batting You know most, if not all, of the names of the players for the Brewers, and spent much of the summer watching games with Daddy in the evening. You’d cheer, scream, and get so excited when the Brewers were doing well. You tried karate last winter, and had a good time. It wasn’t the best fit for you, though. You’re so social, it was hard not to interact with the other kids as much as you’d like, since you had to “stand at attention” most of the time! Karate You also love golf, soccer, and football, especially playing “Fumble!” in the living room with Daddy and Caden. Sometimes I’d even get involved (but I’m usually taking the pictures)! tackle1 Another favorite activity with Daddy is heading to the golf course to hit some balls at the range and play a few holes, riding in the golf cart. You and Caden had swimming lessons this summer, and you started working on putting your head underwater. You’re still not much of a fan! We spent a lot of time at various parks in the area, your favorite being the “metal slide park” where you met countless “buddies” and spent all sorts of time running, swinging, sliding, spinning, and digging. We also made good use of our zoo pass (thanks Nana and Boppa!). One of your biggest accomplishments this summer was learning how to ride a bike with no training wheels! You were a little tentative at first, but with practice, you really built up your confidence. You even made it all the way to our neighborhood park! noah biking You are constantly on the move.

Emotionally, you’ve made leaps and bounds. You are still my sensitive sweetie, but much more level-headed. You are much more receptive to talking things out, much less likely to “freak out,” and much more into bargaining! You come up with lots of ideas, many of which are obviously thought out. You still love trucks and cars, and more and more love playing with space stuff. You’ve discovered the fun of computer games. Even more fun, you’ve discovered the Wii. According to Nana, Grandma, and Chuck, you are quite proficient at bowling, baseball, MarioKart and most recently, pool. This is a big reason why we are not getting a Wii at our house anytime soon! You are really fun to watch when you’re watching TV. You get so involved in the story, and often are cheering for the characters! We love having “picnics” in the living room so we can watch movies as a family. A big step you’ve made is in your reading ability. It seems like overnight you started sounding out words and reading. It probably helps that you love books. Almost every night, I find you asleep in your bed with at least 5 books by your feet. We’ll sit down to read before bed and you’ll end up reading the whole book to Caden and me! You love school, and are full of stories when you come home, mostly about the things you did outside or downstairs, and often about the things you didn’t do that day! I hope that enthusiasm for school continues!

I hope your enthusiasm for life continues. You are such a joy. You have an infectious laugh, an engaging smile, and a gregarious personality. You are empathetic, always willing to give a hug, a helping hand, or a positive word. You are a wonderful big brother. You are helpful and loving to Caden, even without me asking! Everyone who knows you is blessed to have you in their life. Your daddy and I are so very blessed to have you in our lives. I don’t remember my life before you were in it. I can’t wait to see what’s to come.

I love you, my Noah.
Mommy

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The day with Caden

It definitely is NOT my birthday anymore. I know this because my birthday gift from my boys-a day of good behavior-is in the past! It’s been a rough day. But we’re managing. And we’ve had some laughs.

While the boys were getting dressed this morning, they were playing one of their CDs in their room. They started jumping on their beds. Caden was in the process of getting dressed, but was not clothed at the time, so here’s the picture I got. (I Photoshopped where appropriate)
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We made homemade play dough after that, which is very easy, and kind of fun. The boys had a great time playing with it. Caden was very busy working with the scissors and stamps. Here’s a face he made, which I’ve never seen before, but it makes me laugh every time I see it!
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Seriously, I’m crying from laughing at this picture! I made it bigger to really enjoy it!

After lunch, I realized Caden hadn’t tried on his Halloween costume yet and today was the last day to return it if it didn’t work. It didn’t work. I forget that my children have larger than normal heads, so anything that is size 2T-3T won’t work on his head. So he won’t be Batman anymore.
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He’s going to be a UPS driver! I’ll make sure to post pictures!

I say it’s my birthday

Happy birthday to me! The day is drawing to a close, and I have to say, it’s been a pretty good one.

I started my day with a run, which took a little motivation, but felt good in the long run. It was all part of my strategic plan (more later). The morning prep went well, and after dropping Noah off at school, Caden and I headed to the mall. I sat and sipped my Pumpkin Spice Latte from Starbucks while Caden played with the Thomas train set at Barnes & Noble. We then headed down the mall to take care of a return and an exchange. It was kind of fun to slowly (sometimes very slowly) make our way through the mall, and Caden was pretty well-behaved, except for a little screaming jag in Victoria’s Secret. I had to remind him several times about my birthday wish. He remembered-“Good boys.”

We picked up Noah, then headed home for lunch. Caden actually ate his green beans, so I considered lunch a huge success! It was then time for the boys to take their nap. I had Caden pee on the potty (“like a big boy” aka standing up), which was very important since he was still dry from the morning! I then had him sit to try to poop (sorry for the turn this post is taking!). He usually says he’ll “go pee like a big boy, but not poop.” We try to get him to try to poop. I tried to get him to sit longer than 5 seconds, but he started screaming at me, then coughing in my face, after I repeatedly told him to cover his mouth! So I walked away. I went upstairs to read some stories to Noah, then went back downstairs to find Caden still sitting on the potty, reading a book. It was actually pretty funny! He said he was done, so I sent him up to bed.

During the boys’ naps, I had some time to myself. I folded laundry (life goes on, even on your birthday!) and had a nice conversation with my aunt in Santa Fe. It was soon time to wake up the boys to go to an early dinner at Applebee’s with Andy and my parents.

Once the boys were up, I had Caden use the potty again, because he was still dry! I made him sit to poop again, and once more, he protested. I again walked away, threatening to leave him here while the rest of us went to dinner. He got upset, and I went about getting ready to go. I told Caden he was ruining my birthday (can kids be scarred this early from completely inappropriate guilt trips by their mother?) and Noah sweetly offered to give me a hug. I called up to Caden to see if he was coming, and he said “Yes, but I just pooped on the potty!”

Noah and I looked at each other with surprised expressions, then ran upstairs to see. HE POOPED! IN THE POTTY!!! Noah and I started to scream and cheer, and Caden seemed really proud of himself. We got him cleaned up, put him in some big-boy undies, then came downstairs where I rewarded Caden with 4 pieces of candy corn. That’s a big deal to him! Noah and I kept celebrating.

It was time to go to Applebee’s for a Riblet basket (yum!) and a pomegranate margarita (double yum! but not a great idea just before photo class!). Dinner could have been better, but the boys have problems keeping their voices down when Matchbox cars are involved. I rushed off to class, and part-way through class, realized I could have skipped it. It was drier than usual, and the depressant factor of my margarita was working against me! But I made it, and I got home earlier than expected.

I came home to enjoy my birthday treat-a Jimmy Square from Shaker Baker, a local bakery. A Jimmy Square is a piece of moist chocolate cake, frosted on 5 sides, then covered in jimmies. YUM! This was where my strategic plan comes into effect. I kept running this morning, rather than walking, because I kept thinking about this Jimmy Square. I pushed myself to burn some extra calories so there was room for my Jimmy Square! While eating, Andy and I laughed our way through “The Office” and the “Saturday Night Live” Thursday show.

Throughout the day, I’ve been checking my email, and falling more and more in love with Facebook. I’ve received lots of birthday wishes on my page, and it’s great. I’ve gotten birthday texts, as well as calls. I’ve gotten several birthday cards, including a wonderful picture drawn by Noah of me, Noah, and Caden, along with Caden’s little blue blankie and his big blue blankie, as well as a picture drawn by Caden on the other side of a purple whale, an orange whale, and a brown whale (according to Caden). I feel pretty loved.

Bummed out

A little over a year ago, Caden tested positive for a peanut allergy. We discovered it after he ate a peanut butter sandwich about a year and a half ago and hives broke out around his mouth. So since last July, we’ve been carrying around an EpiPen, telling anyone who would listen that he’s allergic to peanuts, and feeding him Sun Butter (like peanut butter but made with sunflowers.).

Earlier this year, my mom inadvertantly made a real peanut butter sandwich for Caden. He took a bite, then Noah spoke up, “Nana! Caden can’t eat peanut butter!” Caden spit out the sandwich and my mom watched him closely, holding tight to the bottle of benadryl and the EpiPen. Nothing happened. Hmmmm.

In August of this year, we headed back to the allergist for our annual check-up. After hearing the story about the sandwich in Caden’s mouth, the doctor suggested we do a blood test to measure antibodies to the peanut. The results were promising. Caden’s antibody level was 0.98. According to the doctor, anything under 6 is considered “clincally negative” (I think those were his words.). Technically, anything under 0.35 is “below the level of detection.” So the doctor suggested we schedule a “food challenge,” a test where you expose the person to increasing amounts of the allergen. Caden’s test was today.

I brought a jar of peanut butter, as well as a bag of peanut butter cups. The nurse practitioner, Sara, asked his history, did a quick assessment, then we started the test. I swiped a smear of peanut butter on his bottom lip, which he licked off, and then we waited. Thankfully, my friend, Amy, had warned me that the testing takes a while (her daughter was allergic to milk and eggs and passed both food challenges), and I prepared by bringing my parents’ portable DVD player and some Backyardigans DVDs, as well as some new books for Caden to read with me. About 20 minutes after we put the peanut butter on his lip, we finished his new train book and took a look at his lip. CRAP! Three little white bumps surrounded by red had appeared. Yup. Hives. We kept watching.

Caden was happily engrossed in the “Mission to Mars” Backyardigans episode (see picture below) when we started to notice him rubbing his right eye, which had started to turn red. He kept rubbing it, and it turned more and more red and bloodshot. The hives on his chin got a little bigger, too. Then some hives appeared just below and to the right of his right eye. It occured to me that he had rubbed his bottom lip with his right index finger, which he then started using to rub his right eye. CRAP! I packed up the peanut butter and peanut butter cups. We kept watching.

Sara left to find a doctor that could take a look, and also said she’d come back with some Zyrtec. Caden kept watching his show and rubbing his right eye. A little shot of Zyrtec, a visit by the doctor (“Stop the test, give him some Zyrtec, put some hydrocortisone on his lip, and we’ll retry next year.”), the “Samurai Pie” Backyardigans episode, and a new prescription for two EpiPen Twin-Packs later, we were on our way.

I’m quite bummed. So is Andy. So is my mom. Caden doesn’t seem to mind one way or the other! I guess we’ll see what next year brings.

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I chose this

I chose to be a mom. Both boys were “planned”-no surprises. Of course, I didn’t choose to have two boys. But I have them, and I love them. Most days. Today wasn’t the best.

I work only two days a week, Mondays and Tuesdays, with the occasional half-day and/or weekend thrown in. I worked today, which means when I get home, I’m tired, but I’m really looking forward to spending some time with the boys. They are often, if not always, very “energetic” when I pick them up from my parents’ house. It takes a while to get them rounded up and in the car to head home. Today was no different.

On the way home, we talked about their day at school, each boy having the opportunity to tell me what their art project was, what they did outside or in the large motor room, any books they read, and other parts of their day. When we got home today, Andy was outside doing some yard work, so the boys stayed outside with him while I got dinner started. You’d think that would help them expend some of their limitless energy. Not so much.

We sat down to dinner, which was mighty tasty, I’d like to admit. I made ribs (pre-cooked and sauced up, so it wasn’t too labor-intensive) and steamed some broccoli. Noah, the good eater he is, immediately started to chow down on his dinner. Caden, the picky eater he is, took one look at his plate and stated, “I don’t like this!” Thus started our usual dinner routine.

We argue with Caden that he can’t decide he doesn’t like something if he has never tried it before. We argue with Caden that he has to have at least one bite of his vegetable before he leaves the table. (Oh yeah, that “statistic” that says a child has to try something 12-15 times before he’ll eat it, total crap. We are well into the triple digits on trials of carrots, green beans, broccoli with no success.) We argue with Caden that he has to drink his milk. Most evenings Caden gets at least one time-out during dinner. (I’m thinking they’re not too effective.) It’s usually because he’s screaming, spitting food out, or playing with his fork. Sometimes it’s all of the above.

Tonight I told the boys that dinner is my least favorite time of the day. I’m tired of harrassing the boys to eat. I’m tired of the negative comments about the food I prepare. I’m tired of having to remind them to use their manners. I’m tired of telling Noah to sit back down. I’m tired of trying to come up with well-balanced meals day in and day out. (How did my mother do it all those years, and how does she continue to do it?) Today, I think I was just plain tired.

After dinner, I started the dishes, then was relieved by my wonderful husband so I could go spend time with the boys. I walked into the living room, plugged in our orange lights (my weak attempt to add some more Halloween decoration to my house-my least favorite holiday!), and got ready to find a game or something to do with the boys. As soon as I turned on the lights, Noah started to turn out all of the lights in the living room and any other lights that were nearby. The boys then began to run around screaming. I can tolerate running, but running in the dark, and screaming is a bit too much. I went back over to the orange lights and unplugged them. Noah started to freak out, as he is wont to do, and that was the last of my patience. (I’m the first to admit that my amount of patience is lacking-I’m working on it!) I started to head upstairs, with Noah still screaming “We’ll be good! We’ll be good!” Um, yeah, I don’t listen to screaming children very well. I told Noah that I was giving myself a time-out, that I needed this time-out. So I headed upstairs to my bathroom, locked the door, and read my book.

When I came out about 5-10 minutes later, Noah was in his room putting his pj’s on. He then told me that “Daddy wrote on the calendar to remind me that I was naughty tonight and I had to go to bed early.” (The calendar says “Bed early.”) I then had the boys sit down so I could tell them what I want for my birthday this year. I said I want a day with my boys where they are as nice as I know they can be. A day with no hitting, no tackling, no nasty words, no screaming (by me or the boys). A day where I don’t have to be the bad guy. A day where I can just enjoy my family, be the mom I’ve always wanted to be, with no arguments about what we’re eating, what we’re watching, where we’re going. A day where my kids behave. Is that too much to ask?

Lapham Peak

I took the boys to Lapham Peak in Kettle Moraine State Forest today. It was another gorgeous day, about 80 degrees (in October in Wisconsin!), and too perfect to pass up. Andy was finishing sanding the deck, so he passed.

The first thing we did when we got to Lapham Peak was head to the observatory tower, 45 feet above ground and 1233 feet above sea level, the tallest point in Waukesha County. It was beautiful up there. It was even prettier before a guy up there commented on the sway of the tower, then asked if there is a weight limit for the platform. Yeah, thanks for that. Just adding to my mild case of acrophobia. Anyway, the view was amazing, and the colors were terrific. The boys lasted about 30 seconds or so.
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We headed back down to the bottom and out onto the trails to do some hiking. There were tons of people out today, no doubt all trying to soak up one last hurrah before winter descends upon us for the next six months! That’s why we were there!
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After we checked out some trails, we got our lunch out of the car to have our picnic. Then we drove to another area of the park to see what else there was to see. We found a pond, a tree with what seemed to be a red trunk from far away, and some great leaves to throw around and play in.
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On the way home we discovered Cushing Park in Delafield that has an amazing wooden play structure. Suddenly their legs that were too tired to walk anymore on the hiking trails had all sorts of energy to run around at the playground! We had a good day.

Talking at dinner

Sarah: “Noah, I think your hair needs a little trim tonight.”

Noah: “No, I think your hair needs a little trim!”

Sarah: “Oh really?”

Noah: “Yeah. It keeps getting fatter and fatter.”

I guess it’s a little humid today.

Here I am!

Yes, it’s been a while since I’ve been here. I just haven’t been that inspired. I also haven’t been taking that many “fun” pictures lately. My photography class is making me much more conscious of my picture-taking, so I find I’m not grabbing my camera as often. Doesn’t that seem backwards? You’d think I’d have my camera surgically attached to my hand! I’m working on it. (Not the surgery, but the taking more pictures thing!)

Anyway, here are some recent pictures. Nothing special, just some stuff we’ve been doing. If you click on any picture, it will take you to my Flickr page, where you can view more pictures related to these.

Apple picking
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Weather
double rainbow3 October 1, 2008-A lovely rainbow!
frost house October 4, 2008-Crappy frost!
pretty tree October 6, 2008-I love fall!

Monday night football!
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the boys I love my boys!

Drink up!

Don’t you think, during the debates, that you could have a drinking game? The word that’s sticking out tonight for me is “fundamental.” I think I’d be wasted right now! Granted, my tolerance is pretty much a negative value, but, seriously!

How about every time Sarah Palin says “I respect you for that”?
Every time she says “period”?
Every time Biden addresses Gwen Ifill by her first name?
Every time Biden says “Let me say that again”?
Palin calling McCain “maverick” and Biden later repeating it?

Could be entertaining!